We received one of many letters we get about our blog. I wanted to share it with you all because it made us feel so very good about the work we've previously done on this blog. We know we've taken quite the hiatus from blogging in recent months but we will get back to it at some point here soon. As I am sure many of you know, life sometimes gets in the way of the best of intentions to play.
Anyway, if this letter sounds like you, give us a shout. We love, and are inspired, to hear your feedback!
Hello Rachel & Andrew,
I stumbled upon your blog a couple of days ago.
May I say:
"How Wonderful"!!!!
As is my custom when finding a new blog, I go back as far as I can to gain history and understanding.
No I have not read all of it. In fact I have only gotten to March of 2007.
I cant totally understand your frustration through the early days of your blog, for lack of two way participation.
After 27 yrs of marriage, my wife and I stuck our big toes into the water of an Open Marriage, last May. so we are still new to this. We have done some same room swap, once separate room swaps, but mostly we play together, all in one room.
She has given me the freedom to play solo, but that has not been nearly as successful as her Solo Play.
What I get the most enjoyment of is her enjoying herself, whether I'm there, or she is alone with her Friend. He has become a Friend to both of us. I'm all about Her Pleasure!
I am so hopeful that you will continue your Blog, as it has been a very insightful, wealth of information to me. I did notice there was a gap in the archives, and only 1 post for the month of May 2009.
I will be home next week and plan on sharing with my wife your blog. What has really been helpful to me, is the insight that Rach gives. It has caused many light bulbs to go on about the way my wife might see something, but not able to articulate it so I understand.
Thank you,
A New Friend
Thank you our new friend!
Sunday, June 07, 2009
Monday, May 04, 2009
Getting our creative hotwife juices flowing
No pun intended...LOL
I just thought I'd write a quick message today to tell you that I am thinking it is high past time we start writing in our blog again. We've been away much too long and I am hoping there are still some of our old fans interested in following what we've been doing and where we are headed. I spoke with Rach and she said she'd commit to herself to do the same. I think previously, we lacked the commitment to want to take it up again and, without that commitment, we'd be aimlessly be stringing you along with promises that we'd post without following through.
So, I'll try to provide an update as soon as I can - as in the next 48 hours - and let Rach do the same from her perspective. I think you might find the two sides similar but with slightly different perspectives as men and women have on any single subject.
We've been good. There have been a couple difficult times along the way - nothing major just typical married stuff - and some good times as well. When I say good times, I guess I am addressing the content of our blog. We haven't been as active this past winter...perhaps it is the time of year or something...but spring brings renewed energy and excitement somehow and I think we are getting that "urge" back again to have some fun.
So, check back often, add us so you can follow along on updates, or whatever is the latest way to track when we post (since we've been away for a bit there have been some changes/upgrades LOL). However you find us, we hope you'll enjoy and share a bit as well. This isn't a forum but we certainly love the participation and comments to our posts. It too, would be great to hear from old friends as well that we had contact with before. Shoot us a comment or email and let us know you're still out there!
I just thought I'd write a quick message today to tell you that I am thinking it is high past time we start writing in our blog again. We've been away much too long and I am hoping there are still some of our old fans interested in following what we've been doing and where we are headed. I spoke with Rach and she said she'd commit to herself to do the same. I think previously, we lacked the commitment to want to take it up again and, without that commitment, we'd be aimlessly be stringing you along with promises that we'd post without following through.
So, I'll try to provide an update as soon as I can - as in the next 48 hours - and let Rach do the same from her perspective. I think you might find the two sides similar but with slightly different perspectives as men and women have on any single subject.
We've been good. There have been a couple difficult times along the way - nothing major just typical married stuff - and some good times as well. When I say good times, I guess I am addressing the content of our blog. We haven't been as active this past winter...perhaps it is the time of year or something...but spring brings renewed energy and excitement somehow and I think we are getting that "urge" back again to have some fun.
So, check back often, add us so you can follow along on updates, or whatever is the latest way to track when we post (since we've been away for a bit there have been some changes/upgrades LOL). However you find us, we hope you'll enjoy and share a bit as well. This isn't a forum but we certainly love the participation and comments to our posts. It too, would be great to hear from old friends as well that we had contact with before. Shoot us a comment or email and let us know you're still out there!
Monday, March 09, 2009
We are fine :-)
I just wanted to send out a quick note and let everyone know that we are doing fine. We just decided to take a long break from posting on our blog to spend some time doing other things in life. We will be back. We hope we haven't lost too many of you. We've spent too many hours getting to know so many of you to lose you now.
We are fine as a couple and everything is fine with each of us. We know we should have posted this much sooner than we have but we will be back. Look for us, keep us on your list of blogs and keep learning each day! We hope that perhaps some of you that have bumped across our blog later on have, or will, take the time to read some of the earlier postings and perhaps it will inspire you to share some of your thoughts on the subject with the one you love. We will try to give you an update about our time away and bring you up to speed on where we are at with our daily lives.
We hope to see you soon!
We are fine as a couple and everything is fine with each of us. We know we should have posted this much sooner than we have but we will be back. Look for us, keep us on your list of blogs and keep learning each day! We hope that perhaps some of you that have bumped across our blog later on have, or will, take the time to read some of the earlier postings and perhaps it will inspire you to share some of your thoughts on the subject with the one you love. We will try to give you an update about our time away and bring you up to speed on where we are at with our daily lives.
We hope to see you soon!
Saturday, December 06, 2008
Threesome video...funny
Recently, someone sent this video to us. I thought it was as good a place as any to appear on our blog. The only problem is most of it features the wrong type of threesome....it's MFM for us all the way to the hoop! Thank you for the link, kind stranger!
Sunday, November 16, 2008
Cocky Coffee Meeting
Update time! :) I have very few moments of free time lately, I shouldn't say that... I have few moments of free time that I have actually felt like sitting down to write. I will go into more details on that later! :)
So let's fill you in on my first of the two encounters:
Brett is someone I originally met locally through one of our adult sites. We chatted via email and a couple of times on the phone. Both And and I were comfortable with moving forward to the next step. Brett seemed charming and witty. He was a professional, married, and he was attractive. Not attractive in the way I usually like my men...tall, dark, and hard as a rock...but attractive in a more mature, fit way. I noticed from the beginning that he seemed very self-assured. I adore confident men but I think he may have passed that stage and moved on to self-centered long ago. He had this way of talking on the phone that was totally about himself...LOL. Anyway, I put aside my apprehensions about his cockiness and decided to continue talking with him to "feel him out" better. After a couple of weeks, and with And's permission to meet up with him, I decided to meet Brett for an early morning coffee meeting - after I dropped the girls off for school.
I modeled my new outfit that I planned on wearing for And. And grabbed me close to him and whispered in my ear that I should I ask Brett to describe his cock to me. The sheer thought of that made my panties wet. I wore my new turquoise dress and silver sandals, and I felt a youthful sexiness as I kissed And goodbye and proceeded to walk out that door. He said I looked stunning, kissed me hard, and his last words were, "Be safe, I love you baby."
Both Brett and I knew not to have any expectations of anything further than just meeting up today. I wanted to feel him out. So, there I was at the coffee shop, enjoying hot sips of my Americano, looking at my watch. Of course, Brett was running late. At least he had the decency to call me and let me know. Thirty minutes later, a yellow Porsche pulled up and out steps Brett.
My first impression was wow. He even has a cocky car...LOL. He was good looking and dressed well - a somewhat slight build though. He made great eye contact and immediately recognized me and gave me a hug. I walked in with him while he grabbed a cappuccino. We took our drinks outside and did not spend too much time talking because he was running so late.
Okay, one thing that brought on a kind of "creepiness" factor was that he brought me three compilation music CDs that he had mixed. I understand personal gifts after you have known someone a while, but that was kind of 'too' personal and it rubbed me the wrong way. After about ten minutes of mindless chatter, he asked if I wanted to listen to one of the songs (Norah Jones - my fav...) in his car. I responded with a quick "sure", not because I wanted to sit in his car and listen to music but, because there was still that part of me that was sexually curious. Besides, what better place to ask him the question And had suggested. LOL. So there I was, sitting next to the overly confident Brett, listening to Norah Jones, when I looked him in the eyes and asked him, "Describe your cock to me please?" He stumbled over his thoughts for just a second...and then responded, "Smooth, somewhat long, and right this moment, VERY hard." I reached my hand over and decided to take a feel for myself. Through his slacks, Brett definitely felt hard...I gave it a little squeeze and he reached into kiss me. It was a short kiss, not a lot of tongue, nothing special. We said our goodbyes, with him requesting that we meet up some place a little more personal next time. I told him I would let him know.
The first thing that went through my mind as I left was that I was was up in the air about seeing him again. He just did not completely do it for me - although knowing I turned Brett on that much was totally flattering and somewhat of a powerful feeling. Hmmm....I was undecided.
I called And, told him I was on my way home. I think he heard in my voice the tones of disappointment, he always is right in sync with me. I walked in the door and told him all about my adventure. And has this way about him that so attentive to my every word, every detail....I know that is partially due to how turned on he gets from hearing these escapades, but also because he truly adores me. He understood that I was hesitant about meeting Brett again, but also told me if I wanted to pursue it to go ahead....I have his permission. I sent Brett an email message asking about Saturday evening, he quickly replied with definitely.
This is where it gets good....LOL. Come the Thursday before our scheduled "date" - I receive an email from cocky Brett with a photo attached, he was canceling our meeting for a woman whose ad he came across in an online personal ad .... He had the nerve to send me the picture! I don't think I would be as bothered by it if I thought she was sexually attractive in some way, but maybe she was to him ... He was enticed by another and I do not handle rejection well! I immediately forwarded the message to And (who was out of town) - his response was that Brett did not deserve to be with me. Damn, I have a good man.... he knew exactly what I needed to hear right then.
Since that day, I have heard from Brett once ... to update me that his meeting with the mysterious woman did not go well. My thoughts on that - Good. And has brought to my attention that we deserve nothing but the best for me ... :)
So we have had an amazing few weeks together, focusing much of our attention on each other, our family, and just life, with a tiny bit on others.... We will share those details soon! I feel a balance in our relationship that is perfect, just playing a bit, and discovering more about each others feelings, desires, and needs on a daily basis. Life is good!
I was having trouble sleeping tonight, so I am now going to go rest my pretty little head on my pillow, right next to that hunk of a man who loves me SO much!!! Feel free to give us your input on the Brett situation. We look forward to reading what you have to say. Good night.
So let's fill you in on my first of the two encounters:
Brett is someone I originally met locally through one of our adult sites. We chatted via email and a couple of times on the phone. Both And and I were comfortable with moving forward to the next step. Brett seemed charming and witty. He was a professional, married, and he was attractive. Not attractive in the way I usually like my men...tall, dark, and hard as a rock...but attractive in a more mature, fit way. I noticed from the beginning that he seemed very self-assured. I adore confident men but I think he may have passed that stage and moved on to self-centered long ago. He had this way of talking on the phone that was totally about himself...LOL. Anyway, I put aside my apprehensions about his cockiness and decided to continue talking with him to "feel him out" better. After a couple of weeks, and with And's permission to meet up with him, I decided to meet Brett for an early morning coffee meeting - after I dropped the girls off for school.
I modeled my new outfit that I planned on wearing for And. And grabbed me close to him and whispered in my ear that I should I ask Brett to describe his cock to me. The sheer thought of that made my panties wet. I wore my new turquoise dress and silver sandals, and I felt a youthful sexiness as I kissed And goodbye and proceeded to walk out that door. He said I looked stunning, kissed me hard, and his last words were, "Be safe, I love you baby."
Both Brett and I knew not to have any expectations of anything further than just meeting up today. I wanted to feel him out. So, there I was at the coffee shop, enjoying hot sips of my Americano, looking at my watch. Of course, Brett was running late. At least he had the decency to call me and let me know. Thirty minutes later, a yellow Porsche pulled up and out steps Brett.
My first impression was wow. He even has a cocky car...LOL. He was good looking and dressed well - a somewhat slight build though. He made great eye contact and immediately recognized me and gave me a hug. I walked in with him while he grabbed a cappuccino. We took our drinks outside and did not spend too much time talking because he was running so late.
Okay, one thing that brought on a kind of "creepiness" factor was that he brought me three compilation music CDs that he had mixed. I understand personal gifts after you have known someone a while, but that was kind of 'too' personal and it rubbed me the wrong way. After about ten minutes of mindless chatter, he asked if I wanted to listen to one of the songs (Norah Jones - my fav...) in his car. I responded with a quick "sure", not because I wanted to sit in his car and listen to music but, because there was still that part of me that was sexually curious. Besides, what better place to ask him the question And had suggested. LOL. So there I was, sitting next to the overly confident Brett, listening to Norah Jones, when I looked him in the eyes and asked him, "Describe your cock to me please?" He stumbled over his thoughts for just a second...and then responded, "Smooth, somewhat long, and right this moment, VERY hard." I reached my hand over and decided to take a feel for myself. Through his slacks, Brett definitely felt hard...I gave it a little squeeze and he reached into kiss me. It was a short kiss, not a lot of tongue, nothing special. We said our goodbyes, with him requesting that we meet up some place a little more personal next time. I told him I would let him know.
The first thing that went through my mind as I left was that I was was up in the air about seeing him again. He just did not completely do it for me - although knowing I turned Brett on that much was totally flattering and somewhat of a powerful feeling. Hmmm....I was undecided.
I called And, told him I was on my way home. I think he heard in my voice the tones of disappointment, he always is right in sync with me. I walked in the door and told him all about my adventure. And has this way about him that so attentive to my every word, every detail....I know that is partially due to how turned on he gets from hearing these escapades, but also because he truly adores me. He understood that I was hesitant about meeting Brett again, but also told me if I wanted to pursue it to go ahead....I have his permission. I sent Brett an email message asking about Saturday evening, he quickly replied with definitely.
This is where it gets good....LOL. Come the Thursday before our scheduled "date" - I receive an email from cocky Brett with a photo attached, he was canceling our meeting for a woman whose ad he came across in an online personal ad .... He had the nerve to send me the picture! I don't think I would be as bothered by it if I thought she was sexually attractive in some way, but maybe she was to him ... He was enticed by another and I do not handle rejection well! I immediately forwarded the message to And (who was out of town) - his response was that Brett did not deserve to be with me. Damn, I have a good man.... he knew exactly what I needed to hear right then.
Since that day, I have heard from Brett once ... to update me that his meeting with the mysterious woman did not go well. My thoughts on that - Good. And has brought to my attention that we deserve nothing but the best for me ... :)
So we have had an amazing few weeks together, focusing much of our attention on each other, our family, and just life, with a tiny bit on others.... We will share those details soon! I feel a balance in our relationship that is perfect, just playing a bit, and discovering more about each others feelings, desires, and needs on a daily basis. Life is good!
I was having trouble sleeping tonight, so I am now going to go rest my pretty little head on my pillow, right next to that hunk of a man who loves me SO much!!! Feel free to give us your input on the Brett situation. We look forward to reading what you have to say. Good night.
Sunday, November 09, 2008
Adding some hotwife links
We received a comment recently from Pondering and Desire...a couple interested in the hotwife lifestyle and pursuing their interest. Like us, they are taking their time, asking a lot of questions of each other and keeping the communication lines open. Their blog is refreshing. There are not enough good blogs out there that discuss, with intelligence and thought, the hotwife lifestyle.
Neither Rach or I had done much searching for new links and, frankly, the links we had needed some cleaning up. So I've been reading some of the blogs again while on the road last week and I am adding them tonight. We've also taken a couple off that seem to have disappeared. One we removed, Cuckholding Lifestyle, has some good information so we wanted to metion it here in case you'd like to check it out.
Anyway, check out Pondering and Desire and the new links. Rach has a couple entries that are in "draft" form. She writes a few sentences and then can't seem to finish them. Once she posts them, I will write about my thoughts and tell you of our trip to Sin City. I hate to leave you hanging but it was certainly a fun, albeit hurried, trip and we packed in quite a bit of fun in about...oh, 40 hours. We even had the chance to do a bit of gambling believe it or not. We are both definitely paying the price though...I don't recommend trying it and I can be quite certain we'll either plan a longer trip next time or simply scale back our fun...maybe!
Neither Rach or I had done much searching for new links and, frankly, the links we had needed some cleaning up. So I've been reading some of the blogs again while on the road last week and I am adding them tonight. We've also taken a couple off that seem to have disappeared. One we removed, Cuckholding Lifestyle, has some good information so we wanted to metion it here in case you'd like to check it out.
Anyway, check out Pondering and Desire and the new links. Rach has a couple entries that are in "draft" form. She writes a few sentences and then can't seem to finish them. Once she posts them, I will write about my thoughts and tell you of our trip to Sin City. I hate to leave you hanging but it was certainly a fun, albeit hurried, trip and we packed in quite a bit of fun in about...oh, 40 hours. We even had the chance to do a bit of gambling believe it or not. We are both definitely paying the price though...I don't recommend trying it and I can be quite certain we'll either plan a longer trip next time or simply scale back our fun...maybe!
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
It's been a few weeks since Rach's solo
I know we haven't written much and I do apologize for that. We've had a very busy couple of weeks - particularly my gorgeous wife, Rach!
We've rekindled our desire for each other and recently made the decision to curtail activities for just a short period as a result of some of her recent encounters. Nothing bad. It's just that she had a few encounters and we decided to refocus for a short period of time to re-ignite passion and confirm our relationship. This was both of us making this decision. We are so in tune with each other that, without words, we know what the other is thinking. On outside encounters for her, we both decided to take a short break. Nothing major - just a few short weeks.
However, we have much to tell that has occurred over the past two, nearly three weeks since we last posted. I am going to let Rach fill in the details on the two since Ken but I can say one was fairly successful and the other, not so much. She will have to explain why this was the way it was and I think it will make much greater sense to the women in the audience than the men. Sometimes women just have preferences or something that doesn't feel right. I've learned that, over time, she is still a woman and that intuition is much stronger in that gender than ours, fellas. So, trust it.
My only concern is her safety, pleasure and satisfaction. She seems very content having these two additional solo encounters and very content to take a break before we head to Vegas in a couple weeks (might have to re-open the jar there! LOL).
So, I'll let her explain as she finds time. Seems to be in short supply these days as she is very busy with all things - two children, volunteer work and a new job!
We've rekindled our desire for each other and recently made the decision to curtail activities for just a short period as a result of some of her recent encounters. Nothing bad. It's just that she had a few encounters and we decided to refocus for a short period of time to re-ignite passion and confirm our relationship. This was both of us making this decision. We are so in tune with each other that, without words, we know what the other is thinking. On outside encounters for her, we both decided to take a short break. Nothing major - just a few short weeks.
However, we have much to tell that has occurred over the past two, nearly three weeks since we last posted. I am going to let Rach fill in the details on the two since Ken but I can say one was fairly successful and the other, not so much. She will have to explain why this was the way it was and I think it will make much greater sense to the women in the audience than the men. Sometimes women just have preferences or something that doesn't feel right. I've learned that, over time, she is still a woman and that intuition is much stronger in that gender than ours, fellas. So, trust it.
My only concern is her safety, pleasure and satisfaction. She seems very content having these two additional solo encounters and very content to take a break before we head to Vegas in a couple weeks (might have to re-open the jar there! LOL).
So, I'll let her explain as she finds time. Seems to be in short supply these days as she is very busy with all things - two children, volunteer work and a new job!
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