Happy Lover's Day

I prefer to call it that over Valentine's Day. Lover's Day is a more inclusive term that brings in not only those that you are in a primarily romantic relationship with but also for those in your life that you Love or love to have fun in a non-romantic way.

So today, I say to my true love, And:

Happy Lover's Day, Baby. You are most definitely the love of my life, the reason for my desire to be with one man forever and my greatest lover - in all ways. You have taught me so much about the depth of love. More than I could have ever envisioned in my life. One that I know will live on forever. You have brought me so many gifts this past year. The gift of freedom, confidence, security and truth.

To my girls, I say:

Happy Lovers' Day, my sweet daughters. May you live a life full of love, full of pleasure and full of happiness. You mean the world to me and I will always love you no matter what difficulties or challenges life and love bring you.

To Jon:

Happy Lovers' Day, sexy. You have brought me great pleasure, a true friendship and the hope of many more exciting days in the future. You are a truly wonderful gentleman, funny person and someone I hope will share adventures with me and And for some time.

To Lovers yet unknown, I say:

Happy Lovers' Day. May we find each other and experience the many wonderful adventures life provides. May you experience passion in life, in love, in sexual experiences. May you always think of the others you are with before yourself and may you, in doing so, experience the wonderful climax of the ultimate expression of being alive. May you challenge the conventions of our society and its socially accepted norms and in so doing learn new things about yourselves.

And finally, to all those couples thinking about expanding their love life to include another man, I say:

Happy Lovers' Day. May you communicate with each other about your desires, fantasies, hopes and dreams. May you find pleasure in each other and in the experiences that bring two people so close to each other. May you find the ability to share with each other openly what you fear to say. May you find great relief in their understanding of you and may you find acceptance in your love. May you successfully seek out those thought and desires and each other's desire to pleasure you. May you find a true gentleman, one that understands and respects your relationship and, in so doing, may you find a greater depth of love between all.