Intrigued with the Erotic Personalities responses

Today, I am sitting at the airport awaiting a delayed flight that will take me home. I am hoping to get home in time to allow us to go out and celebrate St Patty's at our favorite local Irish Pub. Perhaps Rach will go along with some flirty fun while we are out tonight and make the men there green with envy!

I know I haven't posted in some time and I was looking at the results of our latest poll - Our Erotic Personalities (see below). I was was not too surprised at the results.

The Cuckold was about clearly in the lead. I guess if you write about the Hotwife lifestyle, that only makes sense. It also wasn't any real big surprise that 'The Watcher' was the second most named personality:

The Watcher finds ultimate sexual thrills in the simple act of watching. They don’t have to be watching sex—just anything that hints at being sexual. The Watcher is content to see people undress, kiss, fondle, masturbate, spank, get tied up, and whatever else might be construed as sexual. Listening to people making love in the next room would not bother The Watcher in the least. They are compelled to watch whether permission has been granted or not and this is sometimes a blurry line they straddle. The Watcher typically owns an impressive porn collection. Prior lovers who didn’t understand The Watcher may have complained that the watching overruled the participating in some sexual circumstances.

I actually thought The Watcher described me and I haven't quite figured out where I went wrong. I say that lightly because, as I've said before, I don't really like defining myself as a Cuckold. To me, that has always had a bit of a negative connotation reminding me of something involving humiliation. I don't know, perhaps I've just watched too much bad porn where the poor guy is humiliated while his wife/lover tells him what "a nice cock the guy has...better than yours...he can fuck me like you can't...." and I've just not subscribed to that. While some of those thoughts may be in my head somewhere, to me, it is more about Rach experiencing new sexual encounters - good ones of course and perhaps even thoughts of giving her something I can't - but not necessarily better or some attempt to make up for my own personal insecurities. I just want her to feel and be sexy. Allowing her to flirt and experience other men definitely makes her more confronting of her appearance and the increased confidence she has gain has, in turn, made her feel and act more sexy than ever before.

I think, for me, it is having the sexy, hot wife that I find intriguing. I don't go so far as to call her a trophy, but I definitely feel blessed that I have a wife so physically stunning. I want others to know what a gorgeous woman she is. Not only is she incredibly intellingent, sexy and beautiful, she is erotic and desirous of sexual adventure and experiences. To have such a wife, in my mind, makes me the envy of men everywhere. While they might have a chance at a brief encounter with her, it is ultimately me who ends up going home with her. Somewhere in my mind, that is what I derive a great deal of pleasure in. Perhaps it is an ego boost for me...being the guy that everyone says, "Damn, that guy is one lucky SOB". Of course, I do find great pleasure in simply watching Rach have erotic fun. To see her in the throws of a mind-blowing orgasm with another man, albeit just one at this point, is quite exciting and the ultimate in erotic fantasy come true. It is this combination, boosting my ego and seeing her sexually liberated and intrigued that makes me The Watcher - even if my poll results say I am a Cuckold!