Reflecting on our second encounter with Jon

I know it's been three weeks now since our evening with Jon. To be honest, I simply haven't felt much like writing in...oh the past month or more. Sorry to admit it, but sometimes I just get to feeling this way. I feel some pressure to write 'properly' as I know And places importance on every word we "publish". So, when I sit down thinking, okay, today I am going to update the blog and give the world some insight into our personal relationships, I just sometimes go "uhgh". I've been in an uhgh mood for some time. Sorry.

We did have a tremendously fun and exciting evening with Jon. It was more comfortable from the start on that night. It felt like we already knew what to expect from each other and I can tell you there was much less tension, more joking, more comfortable-ness. We had a great dinner and it felt like we were old friends getting together. I am sure that there has been more conversation between Jon and I between our evenings together but when he and And get together, there is a natural 'guy' connection that just occurs. It's nice, really. It takes the pressure off me to come up with something interesting to say when they can just talk.

The details of our evening are much the same as our first experience. I gave Jon a tremendously talented (if I do say so myself) blow job and he too took his time displaying his great oral skills. This time, though, there was more active participation on And's part. At one point, Jon was down making my kitty tingle while And's hands were on my breasts, kissing my neck from behind. Later, Jon was behind me and And in front, his beautiful manhood fully erect in my hands. Funny, I remember thinking that it is hard to concentrate on giving him a hand job while I am feeling Jon's cock slide in and out of me. That, coupled with the natural motions of doggie-style sex (one of my favorite positions) make it even harder to focus. I can multi-task with the best of them when it comes to helping with homework, preparing dinner and having a phone conversation with a friend but that doesn't necessarily transfer over to having two men at my disposal at the same time....lol.

Since then, we've taken it easy. We haven't even really talked to Jon that much. A text message here, an email there. In fact, I don't think I've talked to him on the phone more than three times since and I know And hasn't had any phone conversations with him. It is just comfortable now knowing that if we want to see him again, we can.

One thing And and I have been discussing is whether we want to expand our encounters into having multiple men. We differ a bit. Perhaps it is the woman in me that wants to just keep things simple and not involve anyone else at the moment. And, always the challenger, is thinking we should try to have an experience with someone else other than Jon. I am not completely against it. I think it would be fun to, well, compare - I guess is the only word I can think of right now. I want to keep things on the light side with these other encounters and not have too much depth. I could definitely see how that could happen with Jon, in some ways. So, when we talk about it, I am not opposed to the idea simply because I don't want it to get too intense, comfortable, deep or whatever, with one person. Naturally, a relationship has built between Jon and me. But he is a pretty casual kinda guy about relationships which makes things easier for all of us. I think this is a key to everyone's understanding that nothing interferes with our primary relationship.

I do want to address some of the conversations that we've had about all of this. Something one of our comments pointed out to me (and particularly deep thinker And...lol). We haven't really expanded on that much here. There are a couple reasons. One is that was some time ago and since, I've grown more comfortable in knowing more about where we are and where this fits into our lives. The other reason is that I am not good at describing the depth of our conversations. Something perhaps my sexy husband can describe better. The final reason is related to what I opened this with today. Sometimes, I just don't want to...lol. While I've grown more comfortable sharing our thoughts and our lives here, sometimes, there are some things I just want to keep between me and And. I know you can all appreciate that.