More reasons from a lover of wives

A couple weeks ago, we started to tell you one reader's perspective on what it is that motivates him to seek women of other men. We wanted to continue that discussion in hopes that other men might tell us what they most seek. Of course, we want reasons that are beyond the typical "I wanted to experience sex purely for the pleasure of it." or "To experience sex without having a deep commitment to the woman." These reasons to us are pretty superficial and don't really go beyond the pure lustful and physical needs. Here then are the remaining reasons our friend gave us.

I wish to be the subject of women's fantasies. This is something I realized early on after the first few meetings with my very first couple. I realized that it feels extremely uplifting to be the person that a woman fantasizes about. To be fantasy material is rare and it boosts my ego. It is simply very gratifying to know that a woman has fantasies about me. I enjoy feeling that I am sexually lusted. I just don't imagine a woman always feeling that way about her husband all the time. Sometimes, it is natural, that she lust after some other guy to which she does not have daily access. It is amazingly satisfying to be the very thought of fantasy material.

Think about it...on any of the adult personal sites like AFF, the most common people sought out are bisexual women, or couples with a bi-curious female. These are society's idea of the most common fantasy. But less popular, at least based on the number of posted ads, is the single male for the wife to experience. While I may only have an average endowment, I have other talents that fit the fantasy. I consider myself above average-looking, I am younger than most husbands and I am there purely for the pleasure of the wife. Feeling as though I was fantasy material in a somewhat uncommon fantasy feels wonderful. Feeling lusted after makes sex with a hotwife incredibly hot. What guy wouldn't feed off, and want to fulfill the desires of, this fantasy role.

I am not one that has ever been the type to always chase new pussy or post notches in the bedpost. But, that said, every woman is different. Sex with a new woman is likely to be unique in some way when compared to sex with a previous woman. So, experiencing sex with a new woman, involving a new couple, is very intriguing. It is a journey to be enjoyed. This is specially true if I am able to experience sex with the woman on more than one occasion.

Finally, I am a bit of a rebel. Not in some criminal sort of way but I am someone that likes to run counter to mainstream culture. I like to explore. I believe that the norms of our culture are not always the best journey (or the most accurate portrayal of a fulfilled life). I like to live out my own beliefs regardless of whether the majority of culture agrees with me. I don't do it only to be rebellious but I do feel a certain liberty in going my own way...in finding my own path...and in being a pioneer of sexual liberation.

That's a short and less-than-perfect way of explaining some of my perspectives.

In closing, I can say that a peom that is in sink with many times/themes in my life is Rebert E. Frost's peom, The Road Less Travelled. ............and that has made all the difference!