Saturday, June 28, 2008

A former Porn Star contacts us.....or so he says he is

Recently, we received a response on our Adult Friendfinder profile from a guy that claims he was in the porn industry until recently and was wondering if we'd like a Screw My Wife experience.

Now, I am not sure the guy is for real but his testimonials certainly speak to his credentials. Many women and couples have experienced his "talents" previously and posted a response on his profile indicating that he is indeed who he says he is. I am not familiar enough with the porn industry (and certainly haven't paid attention to the names of the male uhmmm actors) to know if he really was a known star but it was certainly intriguing.

We hear from time to time from other couples that are looking for a certain "experience". Whether it be a surprise for the wife (not something we recommend without getting her explicit consent LOL), a certain ethnicity (mainly the stereotypical black 'stud') or a certain act (double penetration comes to mind as one example) or lifestyle (the my dick is small and I want to be a slave to my wife dominated home). While we are certainly not judging anyone or opposed to anything that they are seeking, (it's still a fairly free country after all) we just aren't into these stereotypes or, I guess you could call them, fetishes.

We appreciate the passion of a MFM threesome, have experimented with various, well, variations...LOL...of a MFM threesome (namely, me watching her, videotaping or photographing them, the full participation of all three people at the same time), yet we haven't felt the desire for these, I guess I would say, alternative fantasies. We have friends of ethnicity, don't buy into the stereotypes of the cuckold lifestyle and don't really wish the experience the "professional" porn star. We prefer real people with real manners, respectful of our relationship and interested in some pure fun for the evening with a bit of friendship thrown in for good measure. We seek an intelligent, good-looking, friendly guy. His member doesn't have to be extra huge, he doesn't have to be of a specific race and he certainly isn't going to get anywhere putting down her man. He needs to be comfortable around a husband and wife wanting to have a little fun with their relationship yet respectful of their primary position with each other.

I am sure some reading this will feel we are putting down these different desires, fantasies or as I said, fetishes. On the contrary. We think it only adds to the discussion, perspectives and experiences. It's just not something either of us has expressed a desire to fulfill. We like the idea of the Screw My Wife experience. As we said, we own many of the DVDs in this series (although the earlier versions seem more real, and thus more desireable to us). To each his own. But Mr. Professional Porn Star, if you are one of our readers, we won't be messaging you back. We have enough sense to know what we wish to experience and what we wish to keep fantasy. To be frank, we think the many, many testimonials just, well, kind make us feel a bit creeped out. We prefer the real guys that are experienced but not TOO experienced....LOL.

1 comments:

The Go To Guy said...

Seems like, based on what yall enjoy, you're making a good decision there, and quite honestly, a very well-worded post as to what you prefer to pursue and what you don't. It really does seem odd to me that it seems easy for folks to assume that just because you're not "attracted" to a person, place or idea, that must mean you're bashing it or totally against it. When in actuality, it's just not for you.

Anyway, a well-worded post. :)

On a much happier note, I really can't blame the porn star for wanting the chance to spend some time with Rach... I mean come on.. Is there a hotter woman out there in Blogland??? I have yet to find her. Just the thought of being one of those lucky SOB's who have joined yall... whew... I'm sweatin'. :P