A former Porn Star contacts us.....or so he says he is

Recently, we received a response on our Adult Friendfinder profile from a guy that claims he was in the porn industry until recently and was wondering if we'd like a Screw My Wife experience.

Now, I am not sure the guy is for real but his testimonials certainly speak to his credentials. Many women and couples have experienced his "talents" previously and posted a response on his profile indicating that he is indeed who he says he is. I am not familiar enough with the porn industry (and certainly haven't paid attention to the names of the male uhmmm actors) to know if he really was a known star but it was certainly intriguing.

We hear from time to time from other couples that are looking for a certain "experience". Whether it be a surprise for the wife (not something we recommend without getting her explicit consent LOL), a certain ethnicity (mainly the stereotypical black 'stud') or a certain act (double penetration comes to mind as one example) or lifestyle (the my dick is small and I want to be a slave to my wife dominated home). While we are certainly not judging anyone or opposed to anything that they are seeking, (it's still a fairly free country after all) we just aren't into these stereotypes or, I guess you could call them, fetishes.

We appreciate the passion of a MFM threesome, have experimented with various, well, variations...LOL...of a MFM threesome (namely, me watching her, videotaping or photographing them, the full participation of all three people at the same time), yet we haven't felt the desire for these, I guess I would say, alternative fantasies. We have friends of ethnicity, don't buy into the stereotypes of the cuckold lifestyle and don't really wish the experience the "professional" porn star. We prefer real people with real manners, respectful of our relationship and interested in some pure fun for the evening with a bit of friendship thrown in for good measure. We seek an intelligent, good-looking, friendly guy. His member doesn't have to be extra huge, he doesn't have to be of a specific race and he certainly isn't going to get anywhere putting down her man. He needs to be comfortable around a husband and wife wanting to have a little fun with their relationship yet respectful of their primary position with each other.

I am sure some reading this will feel we are putting down these different desires, fantasies or as I said, fetishes. On the contrary. We think it only adds to the discussion, perspectives and experiences. It's just not something either of us has expressed a desire to fulfill. We like the idea of the Screw My Wife experience. As we said, we own many of the DVDs in this series (although the earlier versions seem more real, and thus more desireable to us). To each his own. But Mr. Professional Porn Star, if you are one of our readers, we won't be messaging you back. We have enough sense to know what we wish to experience and what we wish to keep fantasy. To be frank, we think the many, many testimonials just, well, kind make us feel a bit creeped out. We prefer the real guys that are experienced but not TOO experienced....LOL.

We've been away for a month? Time flies!

I was just thinking about our blog wondering if we were still having much input and I see that, indeed, the number of people checking in is really down. I guess I can't blame anyone, we didn't realize until just now that it's almost been a month since we last wrote anything! LOL

I've been traveling quite a bit for work which has really limited the opportunity for our play. I get home from a flight on Friday, have a couple days with Rach and the girls, and then I am back on the road. It seems like the summer is already upon us and we haven't even had many chances to get together with friends and family - let alone our married or single friend.

Rach, to her credit has been trying to stay up with emails and the like but since we haven't played any in the past few weeks, hasn't felt the desire to update on nothing to update..LOL She has been on AFF and Eroticy every few days, looking through the emails we get and even sending a few herself to interesting men. I've also given her the green light that, if she sees someone she likes to meet them while I am gone, but she hasn't reached that point with anyone new.

We did have an evening with our married friend again. He was quite the gentleman, as he always is, and brings a level of experience and knowing to our experiences. He seems so aware of what it is we want and where we are going with the evenings activities. Hell, he is so much of a good guy, he and I have talked about playing golf, meeting for a drink or taking in a game. We haven't had that opportunity yet but it certainly seems likely that we will when we have more time. After all, if his wife, who doesn't seem too concerned with him (they've grown apart and he is basically in a sexless relationship and stays for the kids) thinks he is just out with a friend, he will probably have good cover for when we are just hanging out at the house - HANGING out that is...LOL.

Other than that, life has been pretty routine. Rach and the girls are enjoying summer break together, she's doing some painting and landscape work around the house and just enjoying the simple things in life. She did tell me she lost five pounds, put some lighter highlights in her hair and, believe it or not, she looks more gorgeous than ever!

My travel has not made things any easier for us but we are scheduled for a family vacation the week of the 4th which should, hopefully, allow us to spend some time together again. Sometimes the travel is indeed hard but I can say this, it certainly makes the times we are together more sweet. Sex, just the two of us, seems almost new and increasingly interesting.

Occasionally, we'll pull in some talk of the "other guy" but more times than not lately, it's been about just us. This too is a good thing. Not that we won't be experiencing a third and perhaps beyond again and again but that we can sometimes pull back and re-experience the pure joy of our primary sexual relationship.

It is so good just to sit on a Saturday evening, drink a cocktail and listen to music together. It makes me love her all the more that we can sit peacefully together and just enjoy the company. It also makes me more sure of those times when we think about adding another. That communication, that primary trust and understanding of each other leaves no doubt that when she is enjoying the powerful thrust of another cock, that it is just pure sexual fun and that, after we are thru with our fun, we will be in each others arms again and forever.