Cocky Coffee Meeting

Update time! :) I have very few moments of free time lately, I shouldn't say that... I have few moments of free time that I have actually felt like sitting down to write. I will go into more details on that later! :)

So let's fill you in on my first of the two encounters:

Brett is someone I originally met locally through one of our adult sites. We chatted via email and a couple of times on the phone. Both And and I were comfortable with moving forward to the next step. Brett seemed charming and witty. He was a professional, married, and he was attractive. Not attractive in the way I usually like my men...tall, dark, and hard as a rock...but attractive in a more mature, fit way. I noticed from the beginning that he seemed very self-assured. I adore confident men but I think he may have passed that stage and moved on to self-centered long ago. He had this way of talking on the phone that was totally about himself...LOL. Anyway, I put aside my apprehensions about his cockiness and decided to continue talking with him to "feel him out" better. After a couple of weeks, and with And's permission to meet up with him, I decided to meet Brett for an early morning coffee meeting - after I dropped the girls off for school.

I modeled my new outfit that I planned on wearing for And. And grabbed me close to him and whispered in my ear that I should I ask Brett to describe his cock to me. The sheer thought of that made my panties wet. I wore my new turquoise dress and silver sandals, and I felt a youthful sexiness as I kissed And goodbye and proceeded to walk out that door. He said I looked stunning, kissed me hard, and his last words were, "Be safe, I love you baby."

Both Brett and I knew not to have any expectations of anything further than just meeting up today. I wanted to feel him out. So, there I was at the coffee shop, enjoying hot sips of my Americano, looking at my watch. Of course, Brett was running late. At least he had the decency to call me and let me know. Thirty minutes later, a yellow Porsche pulled up and out steps Brett.

My first impression was wow. He even has a cocky car...LOL. He was good looking and dressed well - a somewhat slight build though. He made great eye contact and immediately recognized me and gave me a hug. I walked in with him while he grabbed a cappuccino. We took our drinks outside and did not spend too much time talking because he was running so late.

Okay, one thing that brought on a kind of "creepiness" factor was that he brought me three compilation music CDs that he had mixed. I understand personal gifts after you have known someone a while, but that was kind of 'too' personal and it rubbed me the wrong way. After about ten minutes of mindless chatter, he asked if I wanted to listen to one of the songs (Norah Jones - my fav...) in his car. I responded with a quick "sure", not because I wanted to sit in his car and listen to music but, because there was still that part of me that was sexually curious. Besides, what better place to ask him the question And had suggested. LOL. So there I was, sitting next to the overly confident Brett, listening to Norah Jones, when I looked him in the eyes and asked him, "Describe your cock to me please?" He stumbled over his thoughts for just a second...and then responded, "Smooth, somewhat long, and right this moment, VERY hard." I reached my hand over and decided to take a feel for myself. Through his slacks, Brett definitely felt hard...I gave it a little squeeze and he reached into kiss me. It was a short kiss, not a lot of tongue, nothing special. We said our goodbyes, with him requesting that we meet up some place a little more personal next time. I told him I would let him know.

The first thing that went through my mind as I left was that I was was up in the air about seeing him again. He just did not completely do it for me - although knowing I turned Brett on that much was totally flattering and somewhat of a powerful feeling. Hmmm....I was undecided.

I called And, told him I was on my way home. I think he heard in my voice the tones of disappointment, he always is right in sync with me. I walked in the door and told him all about my adventure. And has this way about him that so attentive to my every word, every detail....I know that is partially due to how turned on he gets from hearing these escapades, but also because he truly adores me. He understood that I was hesitant about meeting Brett again, but also told me if I wanted to pursue it to go ahead....I have his permission. I sent Brett an email message asking about Saturday evening, he quickly replied with definitely.

This is where it gets good....LOL. Come the Thursday before our scheduled "date" - I receive an email from cocky Brett with a photo attached, he was canceling our meeting for a woman whose ad he came across in an online personal ad .... He had the nerve to send me the picture! I don't think I would be as bothered by it if I thought she was sexually attractive in some way, but maybe she was to him ... He was enticed by another and I do not handle rejection well! I immediately forwarded the message to And (who was out of town) - his response was that Brett did not deserve to be with me. Damn, I have a good man.... he knew exactly what I needed to hear right then.

Since that day, I have heard from Brett once ... to update me that his meeting with the mysterious woman did not go well. My thoughts on that - Good. And has brought to my attention that we deserve nothing but the best for me ... :)

So we have had an amazing few weeks together, focusing much of our attention on each other, our family, and just life, with a tiny bit on others.... We will share those details soon! I feel a balance in our relationship that is perfect, just playing a bit, and discovering more about each others feelings, desires, and needs on a daily basis. Life is good!

I was having trouble sleeping tonight, so I am now going to go rest my pretty little head on my pillow, right next to that hunk of a man who loves me SO much!!! Feel free to give us your input on the Brett situation. We look forward to reading what you have to say. Good night.

Adding some hotwife links

We received a comment recently from Pondering and Desire...a couple interested in the hotwife lifestyle and pursuing their interest. Like us, they are taking their time, asking a lot of questions of each other and keeping the communication lines open. Their blog is refreshing. There are not enough good blogs out there that discuss, with intelligence and thought, the hotwife lifestyle.

Neither Rach or I had done much searching for new links and, frankly, the links we had needed some cleaning up. So I've been reading some of the blogs again while on the road last week and I am adding them tonight. We've also taken a couple off that seem to have disappeared. One we removed, Cuckholding Lifestyle, has some good information so we wanted to metion it here in case you'd like to check it out.

Anyway, check out Pondering and Desire and the new links. Rach has a couple entries that are in "draft" form. She writes a few sentences and then can't seem to finish them. Once she posts them, I will write about my thoughts and tell you of our trip to Sin City. I hate to leave you hanging but it was certainly a fun, albeit hurried, trip and we packed in quite a bit of fun in about...oh, 40 hours. We even had the chance to do a bit of gambling believe it or not. We are both definitely paying the price though...I don't recommend trying it and I can be quite certain we'll either plan a longer trip next time or simply scale back our fun...maybe!